middleware/proxy: add read/writeDeadline (#477)

Add deadline to break the connection. We use the default of 5 seconds.
After this the backend is marked unhealthy and not used for some time.

Fixes #467

middleware/proxy/client.go

@@ -83,8 +83,14 @@ func (c *client) exchange(m *dns.Msg, co net.Conn) (dns.Msg, error) {
 
 	dnsco := &dns.Conn{Conn: co, UDPSize: udpsize}
 
+	writeDeadline := time.Now().Add(defaultTimeout)
+	dnsco.SetWriteDeadline(writeDeadline)
 	dnsco.WriteMsg(m)
+
+	readDeadline := time.Now().Add(defaultTimeout)
+	co.SetReadDeadline(readDeadline)
 	r, err := dnsco.ReadMsg()
+
 	dnsco.Close()
 	if r == nil {
 		return dns.Msg{}, err

middleware/proxy/proxy_test.go

@@ -1,3 +0,0 @@
-package proxy
-
-/* TODO */