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DoH, DoQ, and DNS-over-gRPC unpack messages without the acceptance
checks used by UDP and TCP. An unauthenticated request with a large
QDCOUNT can therefore force excessive allocations while names are
decoded and exhaust server memory.

Enforce the same request policy across all server transports.

Signed-off-by: Ville Vesilehto <ville@vesilehto.fi>

plugin/pkg/dnsutil/message.go

@@ -0,0 +1,24 @@
+package dnsutil
+
+import (
+	"encoding/binary"
+	"errors"
+
+	"github.com/miekg/dns"
+)
+
+var errRequestRejected = errors.New("dns request rejected")
+
+// UnpackRequest unpacks a request after applying the default miekg/dns request policy.
+func UnpackRequest(msg []byte) (*dns.Msg, error) {
+	var header dns.Header
+	if _, err := binary.Decode(msg, binary.BigEndian, &header); err != nil {
+		return nil, dns.ErrBuf
+	}
+	if dns.DefaultMsgAcceptFunc(header) != dns.MsgAccept {
+		return nil, errRequestRejected
+	}
+
+	request := new(dns.Msg)
+	return request, request.Unpack(msg)
+}